Ok, mom. Sit down and listen to me. YOU NEED A DATE NIGHT. And I’m not taking no for an answer. Why? Because it is an excuse to get out of your yoga pants, actually take a shower, and focus on YOU (and maybe even give some attention to your partner or spouse instead of the kiddos) for a change. And c’mon, doesn’t the thought of enjoying a meal without having to cut up someone else’s food sound simply AMAZING? Yep, I thought so.
For those of you reading this thinking of a million other things you should be doing instead of going out on a date…ditch the guilt. Because it will get you absolutely NOWHERE. Believe me, I lived it and learned it. Haven’t you ever heard the phrase, “You can’t pour from an empty cup?” I’m pretty sure that was directed towards overtired moms who have been forced to exist solely on Goldfish and Disney Junior for WAY too long.
Has it been so long since you dusted off your heels and ate at a restaurant that doesn’t have high chairs? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Here are my tips on how to have the Ultimate Date Night in Chicagoland, from babysitters to romantic restaurants and where to find the cutest outfit for your big night out.
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First things first…there is no date night without child care, plain and simple. And when you can’t rely on family members to watch your kids, it can be a bit nerve wracking to have a stranger come and stay with your kids. Thankfully there is K Grace Childcare, a mom owned business that provides fully vetted and trained babysitters that are matched to your family. Another option is drop off care such as Take a Break Play Care if you are open to dropping off your child at the playroom into the late evening hours. Some businesses are even starting to cater to families and include child care in their entertainment package, such as I Do Dance Studio.
TREAT YO’ SELF
One of my favorite things about having a date night on our calendar is that I can then take some time to prep for it and try to hide all of the gray hairs that my kids have given me (and what mom isn’t thankful that ombre color hair is STILL in style to help hide her roots?!?!) and take care of myself. There is nothing better than getting a blow out at Blowtique or JOOJ Blow Dry, and my nails always benefit from some extra love at Noktivo or Egea. And while we are talking about treating ourselves, don’t forget that a date night ALWAYS gives you an opportunity to get a cute new outfit or accessory. There is nothing I love better than a new piece of jewelry, clutch or jacket…and I just tell my husband that it is an old outfit and he totally believes me.
WHERE TO GO
I have already written some articles about my favorite romantic restaurants and spots for delish food and drink, but here’s the thing…I prefer my date nights to be more of an experience. You too? Then check out the Underground Supper Club hosted by All Natural Chicago, or simply open up a bottle of wine and order in food while relaxing at the members only Birch Road Cellar. We always like to scope out what is offered over on Groupon Coupons and have gotten some great deals on last minute concerts and comedy shows, too! And don’t forget to listen to what YOU like to do. Are you more at home attending bingo at your local VFW hall with a pitcher of beer? Go for it! Would you rather sip cocktails at an underground bar like the Watershed? Enjoy! Your date night isn’t for your Instagram or Facebook feed…it is for YOU.